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Have you ever wondered how each person you meet on your journey arrived there in your space. These people were; and is; in your journey because believe it or not; you incorporated them into your life [Good or Evil] has been the energy you have dispense from within for some reason in your lifetime. Example, if you have someone in your life that is a lier or manipulator. Believe it or not; you have lied or manipulated someone prior to meeting the man in your life mirror. In other words if you, “own your shit.” You have been this exact person somewhere in your life; towards, someone else. Rather, you were aware of it or not. You can change your life for the good. Yes, you can do this by admitting to your behavior when you served this good or evil thoughts towards others. Now!that you know better you should do better. Make sure you ask for self-forgiveness and ask for forgiveness from the person you wronged if possible. Simply make a discipline choice to put the work in towards stop being a lier or manipulator. Does it matter if your behavior was not as extreme as the person on your journey? NO! Believe me, this person is you in your mirror. Of course, your mirror is different from others. Here is a secret; you must learn the lesson… Remember, we all are on a journey to improve our relationships, friendships, networking experiences and most of all evolving into Your authentic self, you respect and admire. If you would like to hear More on this topic comment below. I would like to hear experiences or probing questions on this issue. Please subscribe below and leave replies. I will respond in a timely manner. Sending Love, Coach Z

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Why are you over looking me? Is it because of who people say I am? Is it because of my geographic location, demographic location or experiences? Is it because of my behavior? Which, I must say, this might have been all I have learned and comprehended in my living environments this is, and has been all the data my culture environment had to offer. In other words! If a person parents did not know the importance of credit and paying bills on time. These parents can not teach their children these skills. So, instead the parents discipline the children with skills of survival. It could just be the way the people in certain surroundings only know how to survive and this is what was reared in the children from the perspective of their networking groups growing up; [SURVIVAL SKILLS]. Then again, Is it because of my Stats, the reason you over looking me? Maybe, it is only because of the labels society has placed on me! Whatever the reason for overlooking me, I wanted to share with you. I have learned I Am Who ever I Say I Am! And the only person I could ever be to you, is “Whoever you say I am to you or whatever thoughts you create in your head about me.” With that being said; some people love me, some people do not! Some people like me and some do not. But, truth is I Am Confident and Content! Please believe, we are all of the above, and this is the first beginning of becoming secure, and loving yourself with permission from yourself right where you are… As alway sending love, truth and light 💞💯😃

Are you going through the motion trying to live up to someone else’s expectations? Jot this answer on a notepad and please answer it truthfully. If your answer is yes… I would like for you to consider your on dream life. This is the life that you are supposed to be living. Many of us had or have big dreams for our lives and once we shared these dreams with the persons closest to us. They shared their doubts or convinced us that we can not achieve these dreams. I would like to say to you. This is the main reason these were your dreams, not the persons we shared our dreams with. [GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION TO DUST THE DUST OFF YOUR DREAMS]. Once, you decide to make baby step to short term goals, this is setting three months goals, one year goal and two thru five years goals. This is going to take man power and time from yourself. But these are your dreams. Another suggestion, is to make a Dream Board. I will also, suggest you look at this as your Motivation Board to stay on coarse to achieving your goals and dreams. There will be obstacles, but keep working toward your goals. The only way you loose, is if you quit or make excuses to stop. When I was trying to achieve my goals. I had deaths of immediate family members, limited financial monetary, family criticize me and badgered me. I continued to take baby steps and yes, I cried and wanted to give up. But, after years of persistent, stress, fear, tears, doubt, limited monetary supply. I am here motivating you all. Because I am giving back after achieving my dreams. Now, I am a Blogger. I do not know how successful I will be as a blogger. But, my goal is to motivate others to live their authentic lives and start back dreaming. You can achieve your dreams and yes, it is lonely. Make sure you surround yourself with positive people and find new networking partners that have already achieved the dreams you desire to achieve. These people can be there for support, inspiration, questions or you can research their success and failures. This could be a bonus for you. Remember you have to be hungry enough to achieve your dreams, so, just in case you have to stand alone… [sign of a true leader]. You can do this. #Inittowinit Please leave your comments below and I will respond in a timely manner. Thank you for dreaming again…

Sharing love, Coach Z

I am sure many, many people are saying. “You have to show me how to embrace my true authentic self.” Others, may be saying, “What the hell you think I have been doing all these years.”

The first thing everyone of us has to do is start off by being true to who we have been up until this very day. Now, do not get upset with me; because owning our shit; is something we do not take pride in doing. ( because we were not taught how to on our shit.) Majority of us were taught how to sweep the shamefulness under the rug. These shameful things would ruin the family reputation or image. So, this lead to keeping things inside with no where to go and no one else should know. I call this (self-shame leading to self destruction eventually.) Today we need to learn how to be true to yourself and in return you will be able to be your authentic self without judgment. This is one of the most hardest task put before us. [Good, Bad, and Ugly] is apart of all our DNA…  If we start with admitting to ourself some of the things in our past life we are not pleased with the choices we made or the behavior we injected into the situation. Admitting these examples,,, in your own words, are the first baby steps to being who we want to evolve into as we embrace our authentic self.  Oh yes, please, give yourself permission to forgive yourself for the things you are not pleased with or that you would like to approach different in the future when the universe serve you a similar situation. This is not a [Bash Your Ass]. This is a nurturing relationship between the old you and the new evolving you.

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Remember when you are taken care of yourself inside-outside. You have so much more to offer others in your circle. This will lead to you having a positive impact in the world [home, family, relationships, workplace, most of all a positive impact in your own life.] As, I give service of love to you all and wishing you a positive impact. No Person Left Behind. #everybodyneedssomebodytolove

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Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.

— Oscar Wilde.

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